Saturday, February 14, 2015

Why not to be bitter today.

Better names for Valentine’s day

S.A.D: Singles Awareness Day

Bitter Valentines
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Murderous Winged Fat Baby Day

The Day Love Costs Money

PDA Plague Day

Chocolate Lovers Day

All kidding aside, there are a lot of things that a single person can say about being single on a day “Cough hallmark” dedicated to love. This a day that can sad, gilt filled and just flat out suck, lets be real here, but that’s only if a person lets it. As a single person I am told that I should be content in my singleness, which is easier said than done. If I had a dollar for ever time some told me to be content in my singleness I could pay off my college loans, but does not make it any less true if some people who told me just did rub their significant other in my face.  But girls, guys here is the thing that “they” don’t tell you it does not mean you can’t want to be married or in a relationship, it just means that are fine with the right now and you are living in the present and not in the future or in the past.  It means that you will not lower your standers for Mr. or Miss right now, it means that you are not bitter about those, who have broken our hearts. It means that no matter what comes, I have faith that can move mountains, even if feels like can’t even move a grain of sand on some days it does not change what I have and that my God has a plan for me.

Proverbs 23:18New International Version (NIV)
18 There is surely a future hope for you,
    and your hope will not be cut off.

Philippians 1:6New International Version (NIV)

being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

 

Isaiah 25:1New International Version (NIV)

     Lord, you are my God;
    I will exalt you and praise your name,
for in perfect faithfulness
    you have done wonderful things,
    things planned long ago.

It may seem on days like this when you want kill everything reminds you are still not the place “they” say you should be, you are where God wants you and He has plan for you.

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